When you grow up, you tend to get told that the world is the way it is and your life is just to live your life inside the world, try not to bash into the walls too much, try to have a nice family, have fun, save a little money. That’s a very limited life. — Steve Jobs
We live in a culture that’s driven by systems. The system guides children to becoming young adults to parents and so one.
Unconsciously we have a plan in place for us, or a plan that we should be following, per the system.